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Learning that
God
actually cares about me and wants
me to be free and to build
a relationship with him.
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Acknowledge my efforts
in trying to break this addiction have been
futile
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I could use help from
the ultimate higher power - God himself.
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Realizing that
"knowing God" is really developing a
relationship with God
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Turn my guilt over to
God - and accept an a gift I do not deserve, God's
forgiveness - because
the price for my "sins" has been paid.
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Realize it will take
time and commit myself to understanding there are no
quick fixes.
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Be willing to live each
day and focus on the next step God wants me to take
- I don't have to solve my whole life's problem
today. I can allow God to take control of my
future and just focus on the next steps that are
clearly before me.
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Realize that as I move
away from addiction, I will face many of the things
I am running from or trying to escape from through
my addiction. As a result, I will have a
variety of emotions and feelings - negative and
positive.
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I can open myself to
the help of others (like the 250-plus members in FIC)
and open myself to Gods help and focus on living one
day at a time.
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It
does not mean living by some restrictive list
of do's and don'ts
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It
does not mean I have to be judgmental of
others
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It
is not merely religious system.
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It
does not mean I have to speak with Christian
lingo.
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It
is not just a moral system.
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It
does not mean using "religion" as an
escape from the realities of life.
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It
does not mean my life has to be
"boring".
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It
does not mean I have to be a
"Bible-Thumper".
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It
does not mean I have to be so holy that I can't relate other human beings.
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It
does not mean I have to think I am better than everyone/anyone else.
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It
does not mean I have to be self-righteous.
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It
does not mean I have to be unforgiving to
others, or slam them verbally.
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It
does not mean I can't be a critical thinker.